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If you’re feeling pain in your life right now, I want you to hear this.

It usually means you’re holding on to something that is no longer meant for you.

Maybe it’s an emotion you can’t seem to let go of. Maybe it’s a relationship, a career, or something you’ve been pursuing.

At one point, maybe it was here to teach you a lesson, but that doesn't mean you have to hold onto it forever

I’m not saying you’ve got to blow up your entire life. Nobody needs to quit everything tomorrow.

But you do need to take a look in the mirror and ask yourself, "Why am I holding onto something that is no longer serving me?"

Because the longer you wait, the more you will suffer and the more pain you will feel.

It’s time to stand up for yourself and let these things go.

You matter, you’re worthy, and you’re worth feeling peace.

What are you letting go of this weekend?

When you're struggling, it's easy to look at the people at the top and assume they’re fearless and great at everything they do.

That they never experience self-doubt, fear, and setbacks the way you have.

And so you take this as a sign that you aren’t ready to go after what you want to create.

Terry Bradshaw is a former quarterback who won four Super Bowls over his career. He's been inducted into the Hall of Fame. When I watched him play growing up, I would've thought he had everything figured out. But when I spoke to him on the podcast this week, he told me he was afraid the entire time.

"I never was supremely confident as a quarterback in the NFL. I always had fear."

The fear led to so many confidence issues that for a time, he had to relearn how to throw the football. "I had to basically start over."

Every pass play came with the same voice in his head. "I can't make a mistake here."

Yet, with every game, he kept pushing through the struggles and showing up.

In my full interview with Terry, he shares vulnerable stories that will give you permission to take action without feeling like everything needs to be perfect.

Most of us want the people we love to be honest with us.

Our partner. Our friends. The people we work with.

So when someone shuts down or holds something back, we typically push harder.

We try to ask smarter questions, or even worse, we try to catch them in something.

But people tell you the truth when they feel safe, not when they feel cornered.

And a lot of the time, we're the ones making it feel unsafe.

I interviewed Brad Beeler this week. He spent 25 years as a Secret Service agent. He protected presidents, interrogated thousands, and became one of the agency's top polygraph examiners.

He told me, "It's not about asking the right questions. It's creating the environment where the truth doesn't hurt."

How often do we treat conversations as interrogations rather than genuine conversations?

How often are we casting judgment rather than interest?

If you can create a safe environment for the person you are speaking with, you will start having far more truthful and meaningful conversations.

My full interview with Brad was incredibly fascinating. He breaks down all the small signals that make people shut down or open up, and how to build trust with anyone you meet.

Have a great weekend,

Lewis

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The fear led to so many confidence issues that for a time, he had to relearn how to throw the football. "I had to basically start over." Every pass play came with the same voice in his head. "I can't make a mistake here." Yet, with every game, he kept pushing through the struggles and showing up. In my full interview with Terry, ( https://8dcd8015.click.convertkit-mail4.com/lmu8k02w57amhng3kvlb6h880374zfgh3p970/7qh7h8h9xnk438fzh6/aHR0cHM6Ly9ncmVhdG5lc3MubG5rLnRvLzE5ODlOTA== ) he shares vulnerable stories that will give you permission to take action without feeling like everything needs to be perfect. ( https://8dcd8015.click.convertkit-mail4.com/lmu8k02w57amhng3kvlb6h880374zfgh3p970/owhkhqhw0qk85luvhr/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cueW91dHViZS5jb20vd2F0Y2g_dj1UVWJkSEx4WWFEdyZsaXN0PVBMTUc1dzIyUE9lZXlrcU9OYmZHaTAwbTRBcXhobnptV2MmaW5kZXg9Mg== )Most of us want the people we love to be honest with us. Our partner. Our friends. The people we work with. 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